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Thursday, March 27, 2008

7 Secrets of EQ Motherhood

The most challenging tasks for today parents is how to develop high EQ child. Every parents want their children to be success in their life. Your children are learning their life skills 60% from family members, while 40% are from school life. If you want your children to sucess, besides emphasis on IQ, also never forget on your child enrichment in EQ. Many successors today proven to be success not because of their high IQ, but also their high EQ, such as emotional control, temper control, good social and communication skills!

Here I share 7 Secrets of EQ Motherhood. Hope this tips are useful reference especially for young parents today!

Secret #1 Care about your children emotional and expression.
Be alert and sensitive to yourself and your chidlren. Parents have to be observance and sentive when your child feel sad while watching a sad movie. Parent have to show their appreciation on their child ability to express their symphaty on a sad movie. It shows that your child is not a self centered person, he or she is able to express their concern to other person.

Secret #2 Avoid yelling or shouting to your children
Parents have to be in controlled of tempare or mode, in any situations. Many parents feel guilty after yell and shout, scolding etc. Try to think about your children is the most wanderful gift for your life, they are your angel of your heart.


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Secret #3 Identify your child feeling by listening and positive responds
Parent have to share your listening ear to your child. Identify your child feeling by listening and responding with positive questions. Try not asking "what have you done wrong again?", instead parent should ask "what had happened to make you feel bad ?" You can also response by cardle or hugging your child by sitting on your lap. This can make you child open his or her heart to tell you his or her feeling.

Secret #4 Always help your child to remember the happy moments
By remember the happiest moment, parents and children are in harmony and enjoyable in every activities. This is helping your child to build confidence in himself or herself.

Secrets #5 Help your children to manage emotional bad temper by cold down corner
Identify a corner at home as cold down corner, avoid corner near TV, room with lock or toys area. The best corner is an area parent still can watch them to ensure their safety. This is the corner where your children learn how to manage their emotion by staying alone and not disturbing by anyone. At the corner, your children is able to think of what had happened, and realise the root cause of the emotional happened. Note cold down corner should be used for 15 minutes or less to avoid your children feel unconfortable later.

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Secrets #6 Help your children how to express themselves by various verbs.
Parents should respond to your child by using rich vocabalary such as worry, scare, angry, sad, mad, not feeling well etc to help your child transform the feeling to proper verbs to express their inner feeling. An example when parent noticed their child is crying, respond to them by asking "Are you feeling very sad ?" Your child will feel their emotional express has been receiving a positive response. Your child will use rich vocabalary to tell you the whole story.

Secrets #7 Finding solutions
Once your child is able to express their feeling to you, its will come to problem solving. Parents have to find a solution by various methods. Here I suggested a few steps for finding solutions. First, identify the objective of the solution. Second, brain storm possible solutions. Thirdly, decided the solution to use based on your family value. Forth, help your child to choose a suitable solution by studying the result of the solution choosen.

Hope above secrets help in your parenting!

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Wednesday, March 5, 2008

7 Secret of Early Childhood - Right Brain Parenting

Today's parents are facing lots of challenges. The first most critical is how to be good parents, follow by learning how to teach your toddlers, how to get along with 2 years old toddler. Others say terrible 2 when your toddlers reach 2 years old.

Here I share my experience of my toddler parenting journey...

Secret #1 Listen
Parent have to listen to toddlers... listen to their crys, breath, eye contact...Listen is critical to understand them better

Secret #2 Think in their shoe
Think the way toddler with limited social network knowledge shoe. Consider they're inmature, although they are genius in general. We have to think for their sake...

Secret #3 Open minded without concluded the right or wrong
Parents have to open their mind and cannot see the misbehave as negative behavior. Perhaps don't punish them, but open your mind to receive any information they want to convey...

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Secret #4 EQ high and in control
Parents have to maintain a high EQ, control, control...control your tempare..really it is critical needed for this doesn't matter what you are doing while your child wanted your attention. Try to calm down yourself by counting 1 to 5 slowly can help!

Secret #5 Be responsive
It's critical to be responsive to your toddler if they are needly in help from you. Perhaps if you have higher priority task to do at that moment, response to your child by telling them to wait while you need to finish the critical task to prevent any negative impact happen.

Secret #6 Be fair if you have more children
Be fair to your kids. It is important especially for the eldest kids. Be fair for love, for gift, for celebrations etc...

Secret #7 Patient
Last by not least, yes! It is be patient... We live in a world that is getting less and less patient. We can wait for queue, can't wait for holiday, can't even wait for computer to boot up or PC software to run or internet page to launch... The only way to train parent patient is through above the six secrets, plus engage yourself in a hobby. Hobbies that need manually work, such as wash car, do art and craft, tracking, swimming... but not computer games please, because you have enough computer in your working life already :)

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